It’s the time of year when college-aged grandchildren are shopping for dorm room or apartment supplies as they prepare to begin a new adventure away from the home in which they grew up. No longer “children” but not yet independent adults. Grandparents must adjust their methods of connection with...
Bev Phillips

Resting On God’s Promises
Charles Spurgeon, a powerful Christian preacher in the mid-1800’s, once wrote, “The sovereignty of God is the pillow upon which the child of God rests his head.” I love the word picture of a small child sleeping peacefully upon that pillow! Do you know life is similar to a fairy tale?...
The Enduring Heart Legacy of a Father and Grandfather
As our family bears the recent loss of a husband, father of 9, father-in-law to 7, and grandfather to 16 (with #17 coming this fall), we struggle with the huge hole left behind. His sudden, unexpected heart attack left us reeling and wondering how God would care for our family in the absence of...
Responding to Redemption
Do you use coupons? In today’s world, they may be printable or digital, contain codes or cashback offers, or result from loyalty discounts. Whenever one of these transactions occurs, there has been an exchange for something of value; redemption has occurred! God’s Redemptive Act The most amazing...
Loving the Unlovely
The word “love” is used rather haphazardly in today’s world. People will express their love for a certain coffee drink, a particular sports team, a clothing style, and a favorite hobby or activity. They then use the same word to describe their feelings for their spouse, child, or good friend. Most...
Immanuel: Is God Still With Us?
The only time we usually hear Jesus referred to by the title “Immanuel” is around Christmas. Seasonal songs declare that God has given His Son to us as a baby born in Bethlehem. But when a new calendar year begins, is that name packed away for another year along with the decorations? The word...
The Fiery Tongue Syndrome: Preventive Measures
My previous post, Fiery Tongue Syndrome: 3 Primary Components, identified the elements required to ignite and spread a fire of the tongue and spread destruction. We may be left wondering how to keep our tongues from setting blazes (as described in James 3:5 (NASB). As Christians, we can apply...
Fiery Tongue Syndrome: 3 Primary Components
“So also the tongue is a small part of the body, and yet it boasts of great things. See how great a forest is set aflame by such a small fire!” (James 3:5, NASB). As the Wildfire Chief in a state’s Natural Resources Department for much of his career, my husband was very familiar with the dynamics...
When Two Become…A Blended Family
Pew Research reports that one out of six minor children live in blended families. One-third of all weddings today form a blended or step-family. This means either one or both the bride and groom bring one or more children into the marriage. All newlyweds face adjustments and challenges, and these...
The Power of Gentleness in a Hostile World
Do you like being described as gentle? Most people would likely prefer to have other adjectives attached to them. Gentleness is part of the fruit of the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). With a negative connotation in today’s often harsh world, it may be the least popular and most misunderstood in...
How Can I Know If I Am a Good Christian?
Since each of us may have different images or expectations around this question, we must first define the terms. According to dictionary.com, “good” means morally excellent, virtuous, righteous, pious; “Christian” is a person who believes in Jesus Christ with a life exemplified by His teachings....
4 Ways to be Kind to the Grandparent You Know Best
Who is the grandparent with whom you are most familiar? Just look in the mirror and you will see him or her! When we think of being kind, it is seldom to that grandparent. It is so much easier to show kindness to others. We may even think that being kind to ourselves is selfish and unbiblical. ...
