Cavin Harper

Articles by Cavin Harper

Helping Grandchildren Deal With Bullies

Growing up, I was always physically smaller than most kids my age. That meant I was “easy pickins” for bullies. It’s fascinating that in Junior High the leader of the “gang" who  bullied me most was actually shorter than me. But he was physically tough with a dominating personality. I was...

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GrandCamp is No Ordinary Camp

If you’re like me, when someone mentions a camping program, you might imagine bunk beds in rustic cabins with separate shower houses, and activities designed for younger bodies—not aging ones. GrandCamp, however, is a different kind of “camp” experience designed specifically for grandparents and...

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Allies or Adversaries

It’s Not Just About the Grandchildren Grandparenting will never be simply about the grandparents and the grandchildren. Parents are a critical factor in that relationship, and rightly so. When the relationships with our adult children is a strong and positive alliance, grandparenting becomes a...

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Passing the Torch

Today, “passing the torch” conjures up images of the Olympic Games. We’ve all seen the runners carrying the Olympic flame around the globe and passing it from one to the other until the last one reaches that final destination at the current Olympic venue. It’s a powerful, emotional experience for...

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A Matter of Identity

Grandparents Navigating the World of Transgenderism   It is true that “ideas have consequences, and bad ideas have victims”. This truism might never be more applicable than to today’s insistence upon a gender identity ideology based upon “feelings” and the push to “discover yourself”. The world,...

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A Grandfather’s Heart

“Only be careful and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them slip from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them.”  Deuteronomy 4:9 (NIV) When you hear the word "father", do you typically think...

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A Tribute to Grand-Mothers

"Her children rise and call her blessed…" (Proverbs 31:28). There are grandmothers, and there are grand mothers.  It doesn’t require a PhD to realize that were it not for the millions of faithful grandmothers in our lives who have graciously modeled Christlikeness to their grandchildren and...

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The Not-So-Grand Side of Long Distance Grandparenting

“My two grandsons, who live far away, have no interest in knowing who I am. How do I pray for them and find a way to connect?” The pain behind this grandmother’s question is real and not at all uncommon. There are many of us with teenage or young adult grandchildren with whom we find it increasing...

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Grandfathers-Spiritual Warriors

Pray for Protection and Victory in the Battlefields of Life “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the whole armor of God so that you may take your stand against the devil’s schemes” (Ephesians 6:10, 11 (NIV). A grandfather understands the nature of warfare and that our...

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Life After “No”

“Give me an undivided heart that I may fear Your name.” Psalm 86b In a day when a lot of people are telling us that we can have anything we ask for—if we envision it in our minds, it is ours—what happens when God says, “No”?  Many Christians find the idea of God saying “no” to be a devastating...

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A Lesson from GrandCamp

“Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much…” Luke 16:10 Integrity is being the same in private and in public. The story is told of Abe Lincoln as a very young man working as a clerk in a country store. One day a woman purchased some dry goods and after totaling the cost...

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A Better Inheritance

An ancient biblical proverb says: "A good man leaves an inheritance for his children's children." What kind of inheritance is worth leaving to my grandchildren that will make their lives more rich and full? Undoubtedly, such an inheritance involves more than money, houses, and land. "A good man...

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