The Bible’s definition of love is active, based not on human emotions, but rather on what we do. Scripture tells us God’s definition of love is the outward flow from inward growth of the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23, ESV). It transforms us and shapes us into the likeness of Jesus. Instead of a sweet, sentimental, or romantic feeling, it is self-sacrifice, putting others’ needs before our own, following Jesus’ example and humbling ourselves as servants.

The love God gives to us and the love he expects from us differ from the worldly view. When God draws us to himself, he not only shows us his love but also pours it out on us. In turn, we are to do the same. With God’s love within us, we cannot ignore the needs of others. Whether it’s material or physical, giving our time with a listening ear, or an encouraging word, love meets real needs. Our love for others validates our love for God, and through his Word, we can love like Christ does.

Praise

Praise God we have his characteristic of love growing within us, giving us his Spirit to love others as Christ loves us. “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others” (Philippians 2:3-4, ESV).

Examine the Scriptures

Why should we love others?

To promote and give evidence of the gospel as followers of Christ. “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:34-35, ESV).

How can we love as Christ loves? By the power of the Holy Spirit living within us, transforming both our attitude and actions. “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own” (1 Corinthians 6:19, ESV).

Pray

Heavenly Father,

We thank you for not only loving us but for showing us how to love others. We pray not to view love as a feeling but as a choice to be kind, to sacrifice, and to consider others’ needs greater than our own. We want to be more loving but sometimes it doesn’t come easy, and we need you to guide us. Help us to radiate the love that lives within us through your Spirit to those around us.

In Jesus’ name,

Amen.