If you’ve heard anything I’ve talked about in my blogs and seminars, you know that ‘intentionality’ is at the heart of what we do at CGN. Courageous grandparents are intentional about things that are important because they are things that make up our legacy. Whether we are intentional or not, we are creating a legacy for another generation after us. What can be more important in that legacy than how we represent Christ and His Gospel to the next generations?

When you consider the legacy you are building for your children and grandchildren, how intentional are you about the legacy of faith and truth you are planting for them? My good friend, Cathy Jacobs, founder and president of Pass the Legacy, shares five ways we can be intentional about the legacy we are building. I want to share her thoughts with you because I think you will find them useful and simple to do.

God bless you and give you the courage to live with intentionality for the sake of the hearts, minds and souls of your grandchildren and their children after them.

Five ways to pass your legacy to the next generations:

#1: Tell Your Story

As you sit around the Thanksgiving table, as you drive in the car on a trip, or as you tuck your kids in bed; tell your family how you first heard about the Lord. Did you always hear your parents talk about God? Or were you in college the first time you met someone who personally knew Jesus Christ? Whether you have walked with the Lord all your life or have just started the journey, share your story with your family. Tell them of the times you struggled with the Lord as well as let them know of the victories God has had in your life. As you communicate your tales of truth, you will be teaching on the “stage of life” about the ways, works and Words of God. You are passing a legacy of God’s faithfulness to the next generations.

#2: Build Warm Memories

We want our grandchildren to remember the times they spent with us. So, be intentional and do things to imprint their hearts. These memories can be simple things — like always “bless” them before they leave. Or every night they are in your home, kneel beside the bed and say a prayer together. Strategically transform common, even painful events, into powerful, pleasant memories by modeling godly character and a positive attitude. These positive memories will be an anchor to truth in their adulthood.

#3: (Three is a magic number) Create Meaningful Traditions

In today’s turbulent world, it is important for children to have security and stability. Regular and unique customs provide a beautiful backdrop of stability that enhances their outlook and appreciation for life. Our consistency sends a message that says three very important things: “You are loved, valued and special.”

#4: Encourage a Deeper Walk!

Read God’s Word to them on a regular basis. Tell them stories of the heroes of the faith. Pray with your family and let them know you are praying for them consistently. Share your heart’s desire that one day you want everyone to be together in the Kingdom of God with “no child left behind.” Let them know that it is not so important as to what you do in life. Rather, it is important as to who you are in Christ!!!

#5: Speak Words of Affirmation

No one can give encouragement like a grandma or a grandpa! When we speak words of support and unconditional love, we bolster their self-worth and empower them toward maturity. Tell them how smart and talented they are and what bright futures you see for them. Watch their faces light up, soaking in every word!

These are powerful ways to leave a strong spiritual legacy for your family. And by doing so, you are connecting the hearts of your loved ones with the heart of their Heavenly Father.